The process of thinking and talking about what you want and how to get it actually makes you feel happier and in greater control of your life.
And when you feel in control of your life, you start to believe in yourself more and boost your confidence.
If you don’t think you’ll accomplish that goal, it may be time to start believing in yourself more.
Self-belief is also about positivity. A positive mindset and positive self-belief go hand in hand. If you have a positive outlook on life, you are more likely to believe in yourself.
Psychology Today explains that if you believe in yourself, you have:
Self-worth (the sense that you have value as a human being)
Self-confidence (a positive attitude about your abilities, qualities, and judgment)
Self-trust (faith that you can rely on yourself)
Autonomy (feeling able to choose and direct your own behavior)
Environmental mastery (your belief that your efforts will result in the changes you desire)
If you feel like you don’t believe in yourself, don’t panic. There are actionable steps you can take to have more confidence, trust, and positivity–all of which will lead to a stronger and better sense of self-belief.
It’s that simple.
Have the courage to accept yourself as you really are — not as you might be, or as someone else thinks you should be — and know that taking everything into consideration, you really are worthy to have the kind of life you want. You are an extraordinary person.
more than your weaknesses.
Positive self-talk and daily affirmations are also methods that can help you start believing in yourself. We’ll cover those later in this post.
Use Visualization
One final way to better believe in yourself is visualization. Visualization is the practice of imagining your goals coming true–the process you’ll take to reach them, and what it will feel like when they come true.
Visualization motivates you to get to work. It also helps reduce anxiety and build your self-confidence.
To start trying visualization, sit quietly and take deep breaths to start your visualization practice.
You may want to visualize what your life would ideally look like one year from now.
Do you have a new job? Are you spending lots of quality time with your family? Have you reached a certain goal? Include lots of detail in this visualization (which is almost like a daydream).
You can also get more specific and visualize certain goals coming true. If you want to write a book, picture yourself sitting down at your desk, creating an outline, and beginning to write. Then imagine how it will feel when you sign with a publisher and host your first book signing.
The power of visualization can help us do amazing things.
How To Be More Positive
While believing in yourself and staying positive isn’t something you have to do every hour of every day, it is important to incorporate even a little bit into your everyday life.
mood and helps your mind–showing kindness to somebody boosts serotonin, dopamine, and endorphins, which create feelings of happiness.
How can you show kindness to someone else today? Often, small gestures mean just as much as big, flashy ones. Consider using one of the many ideas on this list to take action with kindness:
Give a compliment or a word of encouragement
Buy a coffee
Let someone merge in front of you
Give someone your seat
Pick up litter
Write a good online review
Write a thank-you note
Talk to a lonely stranger
Donate items you no longer need to a local charity
Anonymously leave a favorite treat in the break room
Mentor someone
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